One Decision Can Change Everything

Ever feel like if you just had made one decision differently, your life could have turned out much easier?  That happened to me this weekend…  I made one decision that made my families life turn upside down.  I decided to join my family at the park. *dun, dun, dun*

My sweet husband offered to take the kids to the park this weekend so I could practice some of my choir parts without the “children’s choir” helping along.  I kissed him madly and told him that if they stayed a while I might join them.

1st mistake:  Saying *might*

After about an hour of practice, I imagined the whole family at the park without me.  Frolicking and laughing and making all sorts of great family memories!  I decided to take a walk and join them…

2nd mistake:  Deciding to join them

When I got to the park, it was much as I should have expected…someone was crying and complaining, someone was being lectured, someone was tearing around on concrete on wobbly roller-blades of death without a helmet on, etc…  At this point, my instincts said, “They haven’t seen you yet!  It’s not too late!  Go home!”  But I pushed this aside and decided to stay and help my husband.

3rd mistake:  Deciding to STAY and help my husband

Well, I watched Payton throw water bottles from the lunch into the air and try to make them explode, I tightened the helmet on the wobbly user of roller-blades of death and started giving lots of “thumbs ups” and “Good Job!” comments to the various cries of, “Mom! Watch me!  Watch me!”  After about 5 minutes of boredom I turned to my husband and said, “Why don’t you go back home and get the basketball?”

4th mistake:  Suggesting my husband go get the basketball

When he returned, he started egging me on to play…

5th mistake:  Need I mention??

Next thing I knew, the game was getting physical (like it always does).  Jay had a fat lip from my wayward elbow and I was getting very frustrated with his big arms smacking all my amazing shots.  At one point, he was wide open setting up to shoot and I dashed over and leapt as high as I could to block…

6th mistake:  Leaping

When I landed from said Jordan style leap (just wanted to give a visual), it was onto my husbands big bad foot.  This, in turn, caused my ankle to roll causing a pain worse than death to throb into my ankle.  I’ve twisted and turned my ankle many times, but never to this point of pain.

7th mistake:  The use of a few choice words as I hopped around at a children’s park. 

At this point, it’s time to go (so said I through gritted teeth to my husband).  It’s very obvious to me that this ankle is not going to support my weight anytime soon.  Jay starts telling the kids in his bossiest daddy voice to clean up, quit crying, think about their mother and get in the car.  He then tells me to get on his back so he can carry me to the car…

8th mistake and probably the worst:  Getting on Jay’s back.

He starts carrying me to the car and decides to take the fastest straight route through the tanbark.  As he gets to the end of the bark, he misjudges the step to carry him out of the “lava pit” as my kids call it and stumbles down onto his knee!  Are you imagining this?  My precious inflamed, throbbing ankle dangling down his side and he stumbles to his knees??  My foot had no where to go but DOWN and it went down HARD.  At this point, I had nothing to do but roll around on the ground (coping mechanism?) and begin to sob.

Once home, said ankle had swelled on one side the size of a tennis ball.  Thankfully, my husband, unlike myself, is very compassionate.  I am compassionate for about 20 minutes. After that, it’s time to feel better and quit whining.   He, on the other hand, is patient, understanding, brings me ibuprofen regularly, makes me ice it hourly, wraps it, etc… and on top of all this takes care of the kids for 3 DAYS.   Bet he was REAL glad he had a 3 day weekend!  For 3 days I could not put any weight on it without awesome pain and had to be carried around anywhere I wanted to go.  It was fun to sit on the couch and not be expected to do anything for like a minute.  After that, even I was annoyed with my convalescent self.

Day 5 and while I still can’t put weight directly on my foot, I can hobble around using the side of it.   Unfortunately, life keeps moving and husbands need to work, kids need to be fed, so I gimp around just wishing I had made one decision differently.

Multiple Lessons Learned:  Don’t try to make family memories and go to the park.  Stay home.  Poke needles in your arm or birth a child.  DON’T play basketball with your husband.

 

 

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Plumas Lake

In 2004 we made the decision to buy a home in Plumas Lake. Payton was 4, Katrina was 2 and Bella was but a wee fetus. We moved here as a young (exceptionally good looking) family of 4 and now, 7 years later we are a family of 7 (counting our little Lola). It is time for us to move on to a new chapter in our life and it has been bitter-sweet!

Some things that will forever trigger fond memories of Plumas Lake:

Bird Watching. It was here in Plumas Lake that we decided to try homeschooling for a few years. For science our first year we studied ornithology. It stirred within us a fascination with bird watching and the surrounding wet lands provided us with uber opportunities to use our binoculars. It started with the kids and I, then we made the mistake of bringing Jay along on one of our trips. From then on, our bird watching turned into bird photography and long trips of “Can you kids just be QUIET for 10 seconds of your life?!” It makes us a little quirky as we trek around to bird sanctuary’s and we’re usually the only people under the age of 60, but we ARE a homeschool family after all…quirkiness is to be expected!

Trains. Being awoken at 2am by that engineer that seems to find it necessary to lay on the whistle the entire 3 mile length of Plumas Lake….what’s not to miss about that? I feel so much better knowing the coyotes, bunnies and fleas are safe from being creamed thanks to that guy…I’ll miss him. And the disturbance of my R.E.M. Time…

WALGREENS! (In my best Michael Leinweber voice). Since Plumas Lake is a large rice field with homes planted on top and originally did not have a store or a gas station, “The Walgreens” as we affectionately call it is as thrilling as it gets around here. Families walk to “The Walgreens” and it’s quality time. You’re sure to see at least 3 people you know when you visit and I half expect a few old timers to set up rocking chairs out front. It is a mini-Disneyland for my kids and for the first year after it opened they would beg to go there at least 3x’s a day. Thanks to “The Walgreens” my candy consumption tripled and I had to give myself a Walgreens detox. Good times. :)

The lack of trees. My mom has always turned up her nose at our lack of tree’s, but I love the clear open sky at night with the endless stars and the soothing flocks of geese to be heard flying overhead. You can seriously hear a pin drop here in the evenings. (Then the train goes by and ruins EVERYTHING!)

Friends. Our friendships here have been like no other. When we question if we made the right choice when we bought a home here, we just remind ourselves of all the amazing people who have blessed our lives, and we know that it was absolutely the right choice. Tonight in our family prayer, tears streamed down my face as I thanked my Heavenly Father for our Plumas Lake Family and asked him to bless and watch over them.

We will miss Plumas Lake.

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Free to Choose

Bella today was wearing a long sleeve shirt with a heavy ankle length spring dress. It is 100 degrees outside. I asked her to please go and change and she came back wearing some shorts and a tank-top/undershirt.

Bella: Since it’s hot, I can wear this! (grinning mischievously)
Mom: You wear those tank tops with another shirt or your swimsuit usually.
Bella: But it’s really hot! Can’t I just wear it today?
Mom: Yes, but only because your little. As you get bigger, you need to dress more modestly. (Probably a parenting mistake)
Bella: Well….when I’m all grown up I get to choose for myself, right?

Oh dear….So true.

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Tyson the Theorist

So our little Tuh is quite the thinker. I am constantly amazed at how literally he takes things when we are reading or the kinds of questions he asks. Sometimes, it’s just plain entertaining to hear what his little mind has thought up. Yesterday, I overheard the following conversation:

Tyson: Bella, when do you think I’ll die?
Bella: When you’re an old man.
Tyson: So…when I get married?
Bella: No. Mom didn’t die when she got married!
Tyson: Mom is NOT married!
Bella: Uh…yes she is! To Daddy!
Tyson: Nuh-Uh! If she was married she would be an OLD LADY!

Today while reading a Brothers Grimm story we ended with the line “And they all danced around their Mother with joy!” Tyson said, “Who’s JOY??”

Yesterday he said to me, “Mom! What is 1 + 1 again?” I said, “2.” He said, “No, not THAT one! The other one!” I was thoroughly confused and he was getting really frustrated. Finally he got me one of his workbooks and said “THIS one! What is it?” He was pointing to the number “eleven”.

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What did we do today?

Every day I feel as if I have failed as a mother. I think that surely my kids have not learned enough…surely they could be getting a better education ANYWHERE but here. I go to bed almost every night, wishing I could have done better. I know that this is a weakness of mine, and that I actually accomplish quite a bit. It is just hard to accept that I might be doing OK! So, today, I made a list of what we accomplished in school. In addition to this list, I did the dishes 3x’s, swept and mopped my floors, vacuumed my floors and did 2 loads of laundry. Oh, also I helped a friend cut some fringe on some scarves for the children’s chorus….

Today we learned:

How Christ fed the five thousand

About Peters Testimony of who Christ was

How we should submit to our parents and God in all things with a cheerful and willing hearts, and seek to find ways to help without being asked.

How Brigham Young settled in the Salt Lake Valley and had Faith that it would be a prosperous place, even though some tried to discourage him.

This led us to geography research about the Great Salt Lake. We learned that it is like a mini-ocean. We also learned that oceans get their salt from rivers that flow in. They carry little bits of salt from the ground, however, oceans do not have rivers that flow out, and so the salt settles. When water evaporates, the salt does not and it gets left behind. That is why the Great Salt Lake is so concentrated with salt. In fact it is so concentrated that you can easily float in it (like a cork).

We practiced telling time in Spanish.

We recited some of our memorization’s to keep them fresh (scriptures and poetry)

We studied in Botany about a few different carnivorous plants and how they attract/capture/and absorb their prey.

We recorded in our journal about the carnivorous plant that we found most fascinating.

Each child did 2 pages in a grammar workbook.

Katrina read a poem and found clues of metaphors, similes and personification.

Payton practiced some 6th grade spelling words while learning about the duck billed platypus.

Payton read the classic “Little Men” for 20 minutes.

Payton did a Math Test.

Katrina pieced together and sewed a scrap blanket for her doll

Payton prepared a family home evening lesson.

Tyson has been cutting strips of paper for over 30 minutes to refill our Montessori “cutting” activity.

Tyson learned about “pairs” and what that means, then he cut out matching pairs and glued them next to each other.

Bella…well, she whined a lot about wanting candy and cookies and I REALLY should have done some schooling with her today….BUT I AM NOT GOING TO BEAT MYSELF UP ABOUT THIS!

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How to teach Shakespeare (with an element of Shiloh Style)

Today we were starting a new Shakespeare story, (The Winter’s Tale) and I decided to perk it up a bit. My good friend Shiloh once told me that she had done a Shakespeare “re-enactment” for her kids and they had loved it. Here is how I spiced it up:

1. I read through the story and created a “cast” of characters. I wrote each characters name on a list and next to their name gave a brief bio.

2. I went to the puppet box and picked out a puppet for each character.

3. I printed out the character list for each child, we talked about the list, and then I began the story.

4. I read until something REALLY riveting happened, and then I stopped for the day (it’s always good to stop on a cliffhanger. It leaves the child unsatisfied and wondering what happens next in the story. This inspires daydreaming, imagination, or the child seeking the story on their own to see what happens next). My kids always HATE it when I do this. Usually I get a “NO! Keep reading, please???” Sometimes I do…but most times, I don’t.

5. I grabbed the puppets that corresponded with the characters we had met through our portion of the story covered and headed into the other living room, climbed up on the couch and did a puppet show through the little windows that connect into our other living room while the kids watched from the couch. I can be very dramatic, and my fans were not disappointed. ;)

6. After we finish the story (and performances) we will watch the play on YouTube to even further ingrain the story. And since most videos use the Shakespearean language, my kids will understand more since they are already quite familiar with the play thanks to #’s 1-5 above.

So, the final verdict? They loved this! It helped solidify the story, and helped the little ones understand what is going on. After my performance they said, “Can you read what happens next so you can do another show?” “Tomorrow!”, I replied. They then preceded to take turns for the next 20 minutes doing their own puppet show performances.

“To be, or not to be? That is the question.”

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Masquerade

Today for Homeschooling, after the morning devotional, I announced to the children that they could study WHATEVER they chose as long as it was from their “educational” shelf during school hours. Katrina rushed to her Holiday Crafts book and started scheming a morning of that which I dread most…CRAFTS! (dun dun dun)

She picked a Halloween craft, and because we have NO craft supplies (if I don’t stock supplies, she can’t ask to make them…horrible, I know) I told her to write out a list of what she needed and we would pick it up after gymnastics. At Michaels we spent an hour finding plain white masks, ribbon, feathers, sequins, felt and dowels. We spent an hour because Bella had to change her mind every 5 seconds and beg for the most expensive ribbon that I swear was encrusted with diamonds. Finally, after a few fits, we appeased the princess and went home to get crafty!

Once home we began to spray paint our masks and design them on paper while they dried. I was glad I had decided to make my own mask! I felt like a little fairy princess again! (I WAS one growing up you know…except I had wings back then)

Katrina wanted a large bow to be made out of her ribbon. Enter “DADDY THE RIBBON MAKER!” I had not forgotten last Christmas when he tied some beautiful bows for me…

DADDY THE RIBBON MAKER stapled and hot glued many loops, put a pearl in the middle and even added some sequins! Katrina was VERY happy! He also came up with the idea to wind ribbon around the handles. What would we do without him?

The girls were so pleased with their masks that they begged me to let them wear them for Halloween. I was only too happy to oblige :)

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Bird Photos

The children learned about birds this last year as part of their homeschooling.  This has turned into our new favorite hobby, bird watching.  Below are some photos of birds that we have taken in the last couple months, some are lousy, some are really good and most are somewhere in the middle…

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A Bad Day for “Tuh”

So, Tyson (Tuh) got up from his nap and was in the “I’ve had a nap and I’m CRANKY” mood. He went outside to play with the girls, and while out there started to cry because his pants kept falling down. (I have that problem ALL the time!) So, he runs inside to me and starts to insist that I put on his belt. I, of course, had my hands up to my elbows in manicotti cheese stuffing, because I am an amazing mother like that, and was not in any position to strap on a belt. I tried to distract him by talking about “some other pants” or, just going in a diaper but he was set and determined to have the blasted belt. I finally said, “Why don’t you go ask Kiki to help you?” He then went outside, sat down on the ground and proceeded to BAWL. Kiki, being the sweet, compassionate, so unlike her mother sweetheart that she is, instantly dashed to his aid and proceeded to coo and coddle him back into the house to look for his belt. She then came up and said, “Mom, I was talking to Tyson about what was the matter and he said, ‘I’m just having bad day!’”

Poor guy :( After the belt incident, he ran up to me 10 minutes later bawling again! He showed me a fresh scrape on his arm and said, “I’m having a bad day again!!” As I type this, his sister is insisting she didn’t mean to slam his fingers in the closet door just now….SERIOUSLY! That is one bad day. I got nothing to complain about.

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Another Nature Walk Blog…

Today we went on a long nature walk through a local field. It has big hills, lots of wild flowers, and most importantly, birds! (Which we are studying in Science)

We are now quite familiar with the House Sparrow, the American Robin, the Red-winged Blackbird and the Western Meadowlark. It’s very exciting to see these birds and know their identification. Today we also saw a few Egrets. It was fun to watch them through the binoculars and watch the kids hunt for their nests carefully in the grass. At the end of our walk we were blessed with a spectacular display of about 10 Red-winged Blackbirds all flying low right in front of us. The kids loved to see the flashes of red mixed with the black.

As we came to the top of a big hill in the field, in the distance we could see our old Elementary school that was just “getting out” for the day. Parents were lined up around the block in their cars, traffic was abundant, and as I looked ahead at my 8yo with a pair of binoculars to her eyes watching the sky, and my 10yo holding my toddlers hand so he didn’t fall as he navigated a steep hill, I realized that although I sometimes miss my own personal freedoms, and quite often complain that this is the hardest thing I have ever had to do, that these moments are more important.

And I ponder….I was a little selfish when I wanted them gone at school all the time. Now I find myself feeling selfish for keeping them home to myself. It’s a good trade…

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